OUR MISSION STATEMENT

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We are the voice for those who feel they don’t have one.

We believe the power of compassion, connection, and hope will aid in the creation of bonds that will empower those we serve to build trust, overcome challenges, and create pathways to perseverance.

We aim for a unifying approach on prioritizing mental health, delivering education, and eradicating cultural stigmas.

We strive to prevent suicide by eliminating access barriers to care, facilitating mentorship programs, and connecting our clients to a comprehensive offering of support groups through our community partners – and providing graceful postvention support accepting those on their path to resilience.

ABOUT US

Mental illness, also called mental health disorders, refer to a wide range of mental health conditions - disorders that affect your mood, thinking, and behavior. Examples of mental illness include depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder and addictive behaviors. 

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In 2018, words like mental illness, depression, and suicide were unfamiliar to me but became very real when my son Zachary Ryan Birkholz took his own life at only 14 years old. 

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Up to that point in my life, I hadn't heard these topics talked about very often so I had to take a good look at what went wrong and what I found, is that suicide, is often a result of an untreated mental illness and it is preventable. 

I also found that mental illness is a taboo topic amongst people and it is rarely talked about, it has a stigma that makes people ashamed of reaching out for fear of being looked at as "crazy" or "unfit" - as a society, we have given mental illness a negative reputation of weakness and something that you should keep to yourself. 

I quickly learned that our nation lacks mental health resources for the youth and it is time that we break the stigma and drive change for the youth in our community to encourage them to break the stigma and stay alive- Thus the birth of Marshmallow's HOPE.

Marshmallow's HOPE is a personal mission and Zachary's memory is our driving force! He should still be here, however, we believe that by us sharing our family's tragic story, we can help other Zachary's in the world who may be suffering in silence know that it's okay to not be okay, and that they matter!  We are here to support the youth in our communities as well as other suicide survivor families.  

It takes a village to fight this fight, but my promise to you and to my son, is that I won't stop fighting for these kids to stay alive. I won't stop fighting for the many mother's who are missing their children. I won't stop fighting for the importance of mental health and suicide prevention.  Event if our story helps save one more life, I will continue to help aid those who need it. 

Through Marshmallow's HOPE, I will be the voice of the many Zachary's in the world. 

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-Laura Kane

Founder and Executive Director 

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HERO mentor program Services

*youth crisis peer support 24/7 for kids 9-19 living with mental/emotional illnesses, suicidal ideations, and victims of child abuse

     *one-on-one mentorship and probono counseling for youth 9-19 living with mental/emotional illnesses, victims of child abuse

*confidential probono counseling services for first-responders, veterans, and service-members

*one-on-one parent/guardian support

* Youth Group therapy 

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Our HERO mentor program focuses on the future leaders of America-our children, teens, and young adults who have been abused, bullied, have endured trauma, are living with a mental illness such as depression, anxiety, PTSD, self-harm, and suicidal ideations.

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Our program vision is a one-on-one mentorship program where we pair the Zachary's of the World (ZOWs) with a HERO mentor.  But what if we told you that our HERO mentors would look something like the people in the pictures below? 

Through our HERO mentor program, we want to help not only the youth, but also our military service-members, veterans, law enforcement, and first responders.  We know that these adult populations can also be at risk of suicide, and are unlikely to reach out due to the stigma that surrounds mental illness.  Our program is designed to give our HERO mentors a "protective factor."  A protective factor is something that keeps someone who is living in the darkness a reason to stay alive and not end their life by suicide.

By linking a HERO with a ZOW this will bring them both hope, and spending quality time together participating in enriching activities such as bowling, grabbing lunch, hiking, fishing, playing disc golf etc...they will build a relationship that will positively impact each other's lives!

Through our HERO mentor program, both HERO mentors and ZOWs, would work towards bettering their mental health through referral therapy services.

Our program's mission is to 

Help those who may be struggling, both HERO and ZOW by offering them support

Encourage them to set attainable goals toward bettering their mental health.

Reach those goals by providing them with probono professional mental health services, and

Overcome their pain in efforts to prevent suicide.

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Our efforts through our HERO mentor program are to help prevent servicemen, veteran, first responder, and youth suicide. This is not "just" a mentorship program, it is a combination of mentorship and therapy to help the ZOWs.  We know that a HERO + ZOW= RESILIENCE 
 

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**First Responders, Servicemembers, Veterans, and Civilian mentors are encouraged to apply to become a HERO. All HERO mentor applicants must undergo and pass a criminal background check to ensure the safety of the participants of our program.  All mentors are expected to take a resilience training offered by our organization in partnership with The Hope For Us Network prior to being paired with a ZOW.  

All mentors must commit a minimum of 6 months to the program unless being deployed.

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WHY MENTORSHIP? 

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→ According to the CDC,1 youth suicide is one of the three leading causes of death and is the second leading cause of death for all youth nation-wide aged 10-19 years old. Mentorship for youth is a well-studied and documented strategy that can be a life-shifting intervention at pivotal times in the development of their psychological health.

→ According to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry2 Based on 55 studies of mentoring programs, there is a benefit of program participation for youth, with at-risk youth being most likely to benefit.

For example:

●  59 percent of mentored teenagers earn better grades

●  27 percent of mentored youth are less likely to begin using alcohol

●  52 percent of mentored youth are less likely to skip school

●  Youth with mentors have an increased likelihood of going to college, better attitudes toward school, increased social and emotional development, and improved self-esteem.

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The strongest program benefit of mentorship: Exhibited in 55 independent studies across diverse groups of at risk youths was a direct reduction in depressive symptoms.

1 Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, www.cdc.gov/.
2 DuBois,, David, et al. “Youth Initiated Mentoring: A Meta-Analytic Study of a Hybrid Approach to Youth Mentoring.” Journal of Youth and Adolescence, vol. 50, no. 2, 2020, pp. 219–230., doi:10.1007/s10964-020-01336-5.
3 DuBois,, David, et al. “Youth Initiated Mentoring: A Meta-Analytic Study of a Hybrid Approach to Youth Mentoring.” Journal of Youth and Adolescence